The Blow Job Tug O' War

By Maya Lambrou

Some time ago, a friend of mine acquired the several seasons of "Sex and the City" on DVD. In the spirit of friendship, a group of us women decided to have a "Gal's Night In" and start watching from the top. I believe it was in the first episode, that something familiar caught my eye. Charlotte encountered an awkward moment with a fairly new partner: he kept pushing her head down toward his crotch and she kept trying to pull it up. Signals on both sides were clear: he wanted a blow job, and she was reluctant, to say the least. They were caught in what the show referred to as "the blow job tug o' war."

As the episode continued, the next time the "Sex and the City" women gathered to eat and gossip, the "blow job tug o' war" was discussed. The women had differing opinions about oral sex. As usual, Charlotte and Samantha were on opposite extremes. Charlotte basically felt: "Yuck!" Samantha said something like, "I LOVE giving head!" Miranda weighed in somewhere in the middle, with a very pragmatic approach: "I'll go down on him, if that's what I need to do to get him to go down on me." I think most women and men can relate to at least one of these opinions when they consider going down on a partner.

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