Men, Women and Their Views on Sex...
and the Opposite Sex

If a woman/man calls you is it a turn-on or a turn-off?

Chelsea, California - Definetly a turn-on... it lets you know they want to see you again. Theres nothing like the feeling of being wanted or knowing someone likes you. The first phone call could be the first step to a beautiful relashionship with good comunication!

John, Toronto - Turn-on.

Alexis, Los Angeles - I guess it would depend on what he says. If he asks me out then yes but otherwise no, and it also depends on where he invites me.

Marcus, New York City - Turn-on. She's taking initiative and saying that she is strong. A strong man likes a strong woman.

Candi, Georgia - It is a turn-on, because I enjoy flirting and being flirted with. Also a simple phone call to say hello, is sometimes more refreshing than all the drama of courtship.

Ron, London - Not a turn off. In the nineties, it does not matter. The fact that she has called me flatters me. I respect that.

Megan, Australia - Neither, it makes me appreciate them more because they have the time but it isn't going to get me into bed.

Adriana, Mexico - Definitely a turn-on!

Dolly, Egypt - It's a nice change... Whether it's a turn-on ot turn-off, I will know that later!

Beau, New York - A turn on. That shows that they have an interest in you.

Jay, England - It's nice to be called as long as it doesn't get to be too much.

Denise, MA - Turn-on. If I am the only one calling, it feels like the other is not interested in me. But they should not call 24-7.

Mickie, MN - I like it when a guy calls me. I only give out my number to guys I'm really interested in, so I hope they do call me.

Bobbie Vee - If a partner calls me I find it as a turn on. It makes me feel special and lets me know that they want to be talking to me. That way there is no need to worry about if you are bothering them if you call them. But it can't be a one-sided issue. You have to call them too.

Abbey, Montreal - It can be both. It depends on who it is. If it's someone your recently yearning for, then yes it is a big turn on. But on the other hand, if it's someone you yearned for 3 years ago... it's still good to hear from them yet it would be not as much to almost no turn on at all.

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